The term “social network” doesn’t mean what you think it means. Facebook isn’t a social network. It’s a website where I host my social network, and my friends host theirs.
“Social networks” are not a channel for your brand, they are a channel for your customer.
What makes Facebook awesome is that it provides a way for our social networks to overlap without having an awkward dinner party (or kegger). I can find out which of my friends are living in New York or watching Dexter.
Unfortunately, this also means that evil corporations can figure out which of my friends are living in New York or watching Dexter. Crap.
The system isn’t all bad, but you sure managed to screw it up.
If you want to promote your whatever-site, please don’t make yet another Facebook application that lets me flirt with, bite, zombify, or hug my friends. And definitely don’t make another one that tells me which Disney Princess I am.
Oh look — Mike made me a vampire. Now I’ll bite all my friends! Too bad I’ve already been bitten 100 times. We didn’t like it when it was a chain letter, and we don’t like it now.
You can’t just “get on Facebook” — like you couldn’t just “get on the web” in 2001 — and magically make money. I wish someone would grab you, and shake you, and scream, “You idiot. You’re wasting your time and money, and you’re ruining Facebook.”
But, lo! Hark! There is a better way to do it. It isn’t magic; it’s as easy as remembering 3 things:
1) Get over the novelty.
Social networks aren’t the wild west of the web anymore. That bubble will burst (or at least, leak all over my nice new rug).
2) Give me something worth sharing.
I don’t want to spam my friends, and I definitely don’t want you to spam my friends for me. If you do, I’ll go to great lengths to avoid your brand. But if you give me something of value, I’ll gladly tell everyone I know.
3) Let me run my social network.
I put it there, it’s mine, get your grubby hands off it. Make a good impression and I’ll leverage it as a channel for you. I’m a two year-old when it comes to sharing my network; you can’t make me do it. You have to make me want to.
Stop polluting my signal with your noise. Let me use my channel how I want.
Sincerely,
Facebook Users
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